Life will always keep on teaching us some or the other lessons but we always try to skip it and move ahead. But this should never happen. We should never compromise with those lessons. As those lessons are going to help you in tackling up with future problems.
Always remember “Life never stops teaching so never stop learning.”
One of the most seen reasons for students facing problems in their life is because of EGO. The only thing which is breaking a lot of relations. Even when ego enters it makes you think yourself as the superior of all others. You think that no one is above you. You stop thinking about others and enter into a different world. And increases your arrogance level to such a high level that you even feel ashamed to talk at first with your own parents. It is also seen that ego creates a vast gap between you and the society.
Each and every student at this stage comes across ego problem. When your college life you will frequently come across this issue. As this is the age when students get filled with a lot of ego. Even you can find some of your classmates won’t talk with you until and unless you step forward and talk to them. They think that their dignity will get hurt if they talk first with you first. In order to tackle such a situation, you should always keep in mind that they are at the same level as you and talk to them as like you talk with others. You should even move forward to talk to them. There nothing in talking first. Let them think as if they are superior. But you should keep in mind one thing that you are treating them as a friend not your superior. And it is not always good for you to talk to them even after getting ignored because you do even have your own self-respect.
And remember that self-respect is much more important than getting an egoist friend. Never compromise with self-respect. Next step you can put forward is to help them in talking with the rest of the members of the class so that he/she comes to know that everyone is his or her friend. Thereafter you can even help them in knowing that living with everyone is more enjoyable than being alone. Try to make them realize your importance in his/her life. You should try to be careful with them all the time because this ego even brings a lot of serious issues of fights too. So always to be free and frank and even try to make them the same. Also, give them tasks to do which will force them in keeping their ego aside and work properly without ego.
Never ever compromise in helping them to cope up with ego. Just remember the very famous quote: “A friend in need is a friend indeed” try to cooperate with them. And with this hope that your friend will move out of the trap of ego and live a much more happy life.
