This is such a question which every student comes across in his or her life. I hope that you must have also faced this question. I just don’t understand why do we need to care about this question! Does this question really worth for getting any job or respect? Some people try to mind in their own business. But there always many who try to interfere in others life. Is it necessary to know about other’s personal and professional life?
According to my point of view, we must always try to be ourselves. No need to care about others thinking towards us. We need to just care for those who brought us to this world and those who truly care about us and not others. As we cannot stop someone from thinking so let them think what they want to. Just ignore them. And if you come across someone who is stopping you from achieving your dreams then you must have belief and strength in yourself to defeat their thoughts about you because you are going to live your life that must be filled with a lot of happiness but not regrets. You must be confident enough and have to work to achieve your target.
You should always remember that if you don’t achieve your target then a lot of hands are ready to point at you, blame you and insult you. This is to be there in mind all the time especially when you think that you are indulged in unnecessary work. In order to live your future life with happiness, it is very much necessary that you shut those people mouths and pointing hands now and to do this you need to get to your target. Always remember one thing that let others think whatever they want to think about you but you must not think about what they will think.
Another question also arises: Is it necessary that you don’t care for others feelings? No. It is not always necessary that you don’t care about others feelings. Sometimes we may come across such a situation in life where it seems necessary to take the advice of others. So we must work in such a manner that we don’t hurt the feelings of others and even achieve our goals. This can be done by:
- Listening to those people’s suggestions
- Consult with someone close to you who knows about your strengths and weaknesses.
- Never take decisions very quickly.
- Give some time to your mind and heart and take the right decisions.
- Once you make the decision then stick to it.
Now after you make the decision don’t think about others and work upon your decision and prove it to be the right one. And in case you proved someone’s suggestion or thinking as wrong never try to make them feel very much guilty because this may even break your relation with. So work with patience and achieve what you dream to achieve. Don’t make your life filled with regrets. Work upon your dreams and achieve it and let the thinkers keep on thinking. All the best reader.
