Just as verbal communication skills have a significant influence in defining our personality and interest in the conversation, non-verbal skills such as body language are similarly significant. We convey so many thoughts and signals without uttering a word and that becomes the basis of our personality.
So for a smart, constructive conversation, here are a few body language tricks that will go a long way.
Smile
Smiling responsively is undoubtedly a good way to convince people that you are genuinely interested. When you meet someone, take a short pause and give them a warm smile without making it look like it is forced upon you, rather let it be gentle and welcoming.
Eye contact
There is a significant amount of difference when it comes to making eye contact and practically staring at the other person until he agrees with your point. It is important to maintain a healthy eye-contact during the conversation, it demonstrates that you are sincerely invested in the other person. If done properly, the science of eye contact will help you appear engaged and a good listener.
No fidgeting
Frequent hand and body motions near your face will lead your listener to feel that you are either lying or being anxious, therefore, for a productive conversation, do not fidget, scratch, or twitch. Hold your ground and stand lean, do not tilt your head unnecessarily.
Use Gestures
Hand gestures can help express what’s on your mind by stressing certain words and making all the more convincing story. Use your hands to aid in the volume of your point, but use them with some control so that it does not become distracting.
The right posture
Poor posture can make you seem unfocused, hesitant or guarded. Relax your shoulders without slouching and have your chin slightly lifted with eyes toward the horizon. Attention towards your body posture can add a lot to your personality.
